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Perfectionism, harsh self-criticism or fear of mistakes

High standards can become harmful when worth depends on flawless performance and mistakes trigger shame, avoidance or overwork.

Important safety note

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Common signs

What people may notice

  • Tasks take far longer than necessary
  • Difficulty finishing or submitting work
  • Repeated checking and reassurance seeking
  • Avoiding new tasks for fear of failure
  • Success brings relief rather than satisfaction
Several possibilities

This pattern may be associated with

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Unhelpful perfectionism

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Anxiety or obsessive-compulsive patterns

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Shame and low self-worth

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Workplace, family or cultural pressure

This list is not exhaustive and does not establish a diagnosis.

When support may be useful

Look at persistence and impact

  • Standards prevent completion
  • Self-criticism is constant
  • Rest, relationships or health are sacrificed
Physical health and safety

What should not be overlooked

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Information worth noting

  • When it began and what was happening at the time.
  • Frequency, duration, triggers and what reduces or worsens it.
  • Sleep, appetite, energy, medicines, substances and medical conditions.
  • Effect on work, study, relationships and daily safety.

Clinical content principles

PRJI educational pages distinguish orientation from diagnosis, include physical-health cautions and direct urgent situations to local services. Content is informed by public mental-health information from WHO, NHS and NIMH and must be clinically reviewed before commercial launch.

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