What people may notice
- Dismissing strengths and achievements
- Assuming criticism or rejection
- Difficulty receiving care or praise
- Staying in harmful situations because needs feel unimportant
- Comparing yourself constantly
This pattern may be associated with
Low self-esteem
Depression or social anxiety
Trauma, bullying or emotionally harmful relationships
Identity conflict or discrimination
This list is not exhaustive and does not establish a diagnosis.
Look at persistence and impact
- Shame determines important choices
- You tolerate mistreatment
- Hope and self-care are declining
What should not be overlooked
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Information worth noting
- When it began and what was happening at the time.
- Frequency, duration, triggers and what reduces or worsens it.
- Sleep, appetite, energy, medicines, substances and medical conditions.
- Effect on work, study, relationships and daily safety.